. “I am not a saint. I am a crooked good.”
. —Louise Bernice Halfe
. nijaa’ge, zhaaganaash
I am too tired to
imagine your violence is your love,
explain to my friends why I talk to you,
replay your hand on my neck,
your hand between my legs,
let you run your fingers
through my hair, as if I was holy
. I’m used up now.
then you walk away, pretend you don’t see me
on the street with your friend, lift your hand
up to shield your eyes, as if seeing me
could hurt you as much as you hurt me.
. say it again
. pooshke kiin
remember us, your arms around me
by night, early morning, after walking home
in sub zero weather, your hand in my hand,
squeeze my neck, bite my fingers—
. say it again
you love me, kwayak
now we are strangers
. history replays in our mouths
you say you don’t want all or nothing
a little bit yes a little bit no
. pangii eta go pangii eta go
isn’t this what every white man
tells an Indian girl, just sign on the X
everything is yours but nothing will be left.
. kiiwanimoshki zhaaganaash.
I will not reconcile with your violence
how you said I wasn’t a real woman
niizh o’de kwe is worth nothing
. wiiji’ishinaap mishomisanaak
I will not reconcile with the kingdom
of your body.
eha, yes I still love you
. but kaawin, no,
first you must reconcile
. nimashkawizii apane
the weight of your body,
the burden of our history
is my last gift to you.
Author’s Note: The University of Minnesota’s online Ojibwe People’s Dictionary is an excellent resource which contains the linguistic information required to translate this poem in its entirety. For once, my mouth will not translate your pleasure.
Copyright © Gwen Benaway. Originally published in Arc Poetry Magazine (Issue 84, Fall 2017).
Gwen Benaway is a trans girl of Anishinaabe and Métis descent. She has published three collections of poetry, Ceremonies for the Dead, Passage, and Holy Wild, and was the editor for an anthology of fantasy short stories, Maiden Mother and Crone: Fantastical Trans Femmes. Her writing has been critically acclaimed and widely published in Canada. She was a finalist for the Dayne Ogilvie Prize for LGBTQ writers from the Writer’s Trust of Canada, the Lambda Literary Award for Trans Poetry, and the National Magazine Awards and Digital Publishing Awards for her personal essay, A Body Like A Home. Her fourth collection of poetry, Aperture, is forthcoming from Book*hug in Spring 2020. She is also currently editing a book of creative non-fiction, trans girl in love, forthcoming from Strange Light in 2020. She lives in Toronto, Ontario and is a Ph.D student at the University of Toronto in the Women and Gender Studies Institute.
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