“I am not a brave woman” by Grace Ellice May

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I am not a brave woman

By Grace Ellice May

“Are you strong?” he asked.

“I have to be.’ I replied.

To be strong, one must be afraid of something.

For strength is an armor worn in defense against terror.

“What terrifies you?” he then asked.

Some things are better left undeclared.

I smiled. Then, I replied, “Nothing.”

I said, “God, perhaps. But, nothing else.”

Fear makes a liar out of a person.

Even so, weaknesses should never be exposed.

Never to a friend, an enemy, and even one’s self.

Otherwise we become the thing we fear the most.

I am not a brave woman.

For I have a pocketful of terrors.

Perhaps, more than that.

Two pockets, maybe.

Three? No, more than that

I have enough to keep me up at night.

I am a depressive-anxious insomniac

Nowhere close to recovering.

My night paranoia is a creation of my own doing.

I believe there is something lurking in the dark.

It is waiting to get me.

So, I stay awake to prevent being caught.

I cannot confess this others

I fear that I will be called ‘mad’.

But, I am not mad.

I am sick.

I’ve been sick for a while.

Perhaps, longer than that.

The sick one often fights to stay strong.

They fight, and fight, until there is no strength left.

I have never been brave.

The only thing I have ever done is caved.

I have only ever been a coward

Scared to live, and love.

Even scared to exist.

My existence is my greatest terror.

Yet, I still long to be a part of this world.

How does one fit in, in a place they do not belong?

Yet, I still long to be a part of this world.

I so desperately want to belong.

I need to belong

I have to.

If I risk standing out

Am I strong, or just alone?

I would like to someday put my armor away.

I don’t want to be strong all on my own.

Courage is something you need

If you have to face the world alone.

I am not brave. I do not want to be brave.

Yet, I have to be.

‘Tis a bold confession, isn’t it?


Copyright © Grace Ellice May

Grace Ellice May is a master creative seeking to build an artful life beyond facades and frivolous encounters. She uses her work as a writer and poet to inspire those wishing to lead a bold and authentic life for themselves and nurture their unique voice.


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